Vatsyayana Kama Sutra Part 2, Chapter 5 : Sexual union

Biting is only natural during sex. It is part of the sexual process.

One of the partners could bite himself/herself while having sex and this would be out of sheer pleasure that she/he is getting, while having sex.

Another reason for biting during sex is that one of the partners might enjoy biting the other partner while having sex.

Yet another reason for biting while having sex is that one partner might enjoy the pleasure/pain of being bitten while having sex and so the other partner is trying his/her best to please the other partner, by biting him/her while having sex.

As we all know that they are different ways of having sex to enjoy it, some like it soft and gentle, and some like rough sex like biting. Sexual biting is a passionate behavior that emerges when people are highly aroused during sex or foreplay. Many people don’t have a reason why they like to bite or scratch. They say it just happens automatically when they’re getting the pleasure that is blowing their minds. Everything is out of control like curling your toes or making that crazy sound O-face isn’t voluntary. In the sexual moment, the body just tends to do its own thing and it seems like every muscle wants to clench up and a person gets carried away than bite. Some people when they’re sexually aroused loses the capacity to recognize how far is too far and end up hurting another person. To gain control you need to take notes from the BDSM culture concerning the importance of safewords.

Sexual biting is also known as odaxelagnia(The act of creating or enhancing sexual arousal through biting). Biting hurts and can be dangerous because human saliva contains at least 50 species of bacteria. Medical researchers showed that human bites have higher rates of infection than other injuries. That is why the safe ward is needed to keep everyone safe from any danger. The majority of women fantasize about incorporating biting into sex. A researcher explained that biting tends or can lead to a fast escalation in arousal, causing the woman you are with to get turned on a lot faster than she would normally do. Sexual biting is an important part of the evolutionary heritage and common in several societies. It appears to be something women enjoy more than men.

Many men and women find biting during sex to be both stimulating and pleasurable, but that doesn’t mean that biting is for every person. If you want to introduce it to your partner or see if she/he likes it, the first thing to do is ask gentle. Try gaining trust from your partner first and show that you’re as focused on their pleasure as your own. Also, try test out without scaring him/her away and don’t force each other to do what you don’t like. Because things can be complicated when your partner comes to you and asks for something that you are not comfortable with or interested in doing.



How to bite properly?

During foreplay talk sexy while you nibbling on his/her neck if your partner seems to enjoy it, ask this “does this turn you?”.