Tales from the Sugar Bowl #3

Greetings from the sugar bowl…where the internet helps connect generous older men looking for action…with sexy younger women seeking financial support and mentorship…I was a happily married man …who was blindsided when my wife on nearly ten years left me for a guy in her office. I was devastated by the ensuing divorce and have been in therapy. It’s funny because it was my therapist…Dr. Jones …a woman…several years older than me…who referred me to the site. I had asked her if she thought I was ready to get back into dating and she wrote down the site destination and said, “You might find this easier for now.

She was right…I took some time to develop my profile…I wanted to make sure I didn’t sound wounded nor did I want to create the impression that I was looking for a wife…My profile stated two things clearly…I was looking for a “friends with benefits” situation and would be willing to pay the right woman a monthly allowance…I included a picture that was more casual …and was surprised at the number of women who contacted me. I struggled a bit in engaging with the women who messaged me…it’s been a good long while…and these women were mostly 25 years my junior…I met several but somehow the chemistry never felt right

In my next follow-up visit with Dr. Jones, she asked me if I had followed her suggestion and wanted to know all about it. Frankly, it was weird having a somewhat clinical conversation about the sugar bowl…After a time she focused in on what kinds of women I was targeting on the site.