I am a phylogynist, a lover of women. I believe every woman is unique, I have nibbled, grazed, yes, even gorged myself on several of those I’ve met. But all of that is but a dim memory since she came into my life. Yet I remain, a connoisseur of the intimate acts a man and woman can do to pleasure each other. I just want to do them all with her and no one else.

I was never a man looking for a 10, or 9, or even a 5, I won’t grade women on looks alone. I was only ever interested in women, who hadn’t explored every aspect of her own being, including sexual, and wants a partner committed to mutual exploration. She only has to be intelligent, searching for the finer things, healthy, fastidious, enticing, seductive, amorous, sensually passionate and understanding. Certainly not too much to ask?. My lover is the answer to all that and more. She is the object of all my fantasies.


For me a “date” with the woman I love involves an evening out…. food, music, theater, dancing, a night in and breakfast in the morning…. I know my way around the kitchen. As the evening out is indeed a prelude to the night in, the temptation begins there. She is fastidious about herself, hygiene, hair, makeup, clothes. It helps my ego to feel that her appearance says to the entire world… at least the men. “I’ve got IT, but only he can have IT.” Most women can feel like a 10, if they care seriously about themselves. My love is definitely my 10.

I think a woman out for the evening should dress like a woman, slacks are verboten. Sensuous lingerie is a definite must; a lacy bra, garter belt and stockings can be a big turn-on. This particular night, she wore a feminine suit in a color most becoming to her. Under the jacket she was as daring as she felt comfortable, wearing a thin, lacy under-wired bra that enhanced her decolletage. The key to all of this is don’t show too much to the men about you but dangle the temptation constantly at the man by your side. The nice thing about garter belts and stockings, she need wear nothing else underneath, welcoming the stolen caress of her inner thigh or higher if the moment presents itself. Only she and I will know. She knows all these tricks and more.