EXPLORING OUR SEXUALITY

“We both have strong sex drives, we are both exhibitionists and voyeurs, we both have a kinky side. I want us to be unapologetic about what we both want and set boundaries. I want us keep an open and honest communication channel with our sexual partner or partners.

“I want to get to know every inch of your body and you mine. And yes, that means mutual masturbating. Even better with someone watching. Let’s have fun. Sex should feel great, so remember to prioritize pleasure.”

I thought we were having fun, our sex feels great and we were prioritizing our pleasure,” I replied.

“Yes, however, I want us to be unapologetic about what we both want and set boundaries. For instance I would love an attractive young boy, naked, early twenties, with a good body to watch us masturbate while we talked to him. My boundaries? No fucking with the boy, you or me.”

“I also want you to be unapologetic about what you want and set boundaries. Tell me what you would like to be unapologetic about what you want and set some boundaries.”

“I would love your girlfriend Mandy, naked, to watch us fucking after lots of foreplay.”

“Very tempting, though let’s commence with one of the boys from your gym. You can fantasise about Mandy while we tease a boy, note that I said we tease. I will also fantasize about Mandy, always good to have something to look forward to, especially a new sexual connection.

A week later I had arranged for Paul, a boy from my gym to visit us on the Sunday afternoon. Early twenties, wonderful eye candy for Sarah, slim, tall with a six pack body. I had carefully explained what Sarah had in mind as we watched each other dry our naked bodies after showering at the gym.

Sarah was wearing heels and a yellow designer coat when she told him, “My man and I want to explore our sexuality, really explore, while you watch.